Do U !! What if?!?

Do you go the route that leads to acceptance with a group, knowing that they never see the real you?

Do you go the route that leads to a cold shoulder from that first group but maybe opens up a door to another group entirely?

What if the first group is more accesible than the second?

What if you don't know how to get involved in the group that you think you'd feel more comfortable in?

What if you're so used to fitting in with the first that the second never takes notice of you?